Wise Old Lady – Blog
I love but do I trust?
Love is a wonderful thing but as it has a high vibrational frequency and can quickly turn to hate, not that we really hate a loved one you understand, but we can quickly take a dislike to something they said or did. If that goes further because of the action of that...
Manifesting my love!
This is another aspect of my life and relationships, and a continuation of the story in last time's blog. (Please read that one first if you missed it). When my husband Peter died, I was in pieces, and according to my family, I had been going downhill for a couple of...
Love in Later life; just how many frogs does one have to kiss?
You will know I recently lost my partner to cancer; it was mercifully quick but of course that left shock and distress for those left behind. I have been asked about how we met, so here is the story and I hope it helps any of you who have loved and lost and maybe,...
Trauma is not always PTSD!
We have all have trauma of some kind. Our problem may seem trivial if we compare it to some people’s lives, but it is how we perceive our problems that make them traumatic… or not.
Caring for a loved soul
This is all about our soul, the ones that have passed and us who are left, and how we must go through so much life, good and difficult, before we can leave the human place of existence. Soul therapy, yes, it is a thing, is more about our current life than we may...
You can lead a horse to water…..!
Taking every day as it comes, with unconditional love.
Are you dancing around the May Pole this month?
When we dance or move to music we find joy, the beat of the music is the rhythm of life. fine a May Pole and make a pattern with the ribbons. Be a child again and dance a little.
Why challenges are important
There is nothing in life that doesn’t teach us something, if we take note, even those difficult days are showing us that maybe we are not on the right path, our life and our relationships will change, and we adapt or fail.
Changing up to a more spiritual level
healing and teaching that there is more to this life than we know, more to life than we understand but to start now is good for the journey of your soul
What is Healing with Intention, and you can I do it too?
How using the power if intention can lift us to another dimension to heal ourselves and others.
Self-control is emotional mastery!
Self-discipline is self-mastery, it takes time, but it will make your life happier and less stressful.
Happy New Year, but are you looking for something?
Around that time, I began researching other faiths, and found them all lacking, with many things that did not seem true or right, so, for many years my belief system has been fluid, I have rejected all man-made religions and follow a path seeking enlightenment on my own terms, with my own set of rituals and beliefs. What is enlightenment you may ask?
Well as far as I am concerned it is the awareness of oneness, there is no ‘them and us’, there is only us. Humanity does not rule the earth, mother nature does, and every insect and every leaf is as important as I am.
Whatever happened to respect?
Step back from trauma and relearn how to be free of worry and stress.
More ways to find the cause of illness….
Dowsing to find the cause of illness…takes learning and application but works very well even at a distance.
Mental health and gut reaction!
It was World Mental Health Day a few days ago and I wrote on my Facebook post that of course, we need to be aware of this and support people who may be suffering from any kind of mental health issues. But I often wonder if this is a relatively new occurrence or if are...
Never forget that grief can be comforting
Death is inevitable, but to die with dignity with loving family around is what we would want. the Queen managed it well. Thank you ma’am for your service.
THE BLESSINGS OF LIFE
If you have just read my newsletter, you will understand that I have been through some changes to the way I work. These have been time-consuming and mentally challenging but the sense of achievement now it is done is uplifting. So, all that work was a blessing, a gift...
What is EFT?
It’s tapping on special points on the body for emotional and physical releaseGood Health and Well-being is my passion, so I support and coach clients through physical and emotional traumas and disease, including mental and stress-related issues, using natural...
Fear within relationships
I know that many of us are aware that some relationships are permeated with fear, people are scared of doing the wrong thing or saying something that sets off a row. It’s not easy to see why, it’s not a simple thing to deal with, it is however it is too simple to set...
We can all have an emotional crisis…this was one of mine!
We can all have an emotional crisis…this was one of mine! As many of you know, I have a specialism working with women of a certain age, that in my book as anyone over fifty, we all need support and getting old often gives us more problems than we expect! As we age, we...
Pain is awful, constant pain can be excruciating!
Before I talk about pain, I promised to tell you the results of Sheila’s issues: The background was in a previous blog about ‘travel’ if you would like to go back and find it… Well, once again we worked through her timeline and discovered that as a child Sheila had...
Over 50 But Not Over the Hill!
To start with, the fantastic results from Sheila’s recent sessions will be in the next blog…. Did you know that just being over fifty can create anxiety and depression? It is like the midlife crisis that 40 used to be, just as important, as the rest of your life still...
Never forget the rituals of life
An update on Sheila will come a little later, as work progresses but, in the meantime, I thought you may be interested in this…. (If you missed Sheila’s story, it was in the last blog post) I have been thinking about rituals, we all used to have rituals of life, birth...
What travel teaches us….to look deeper
Did you know that travel broadens the mind? Well, it does though in my case it also broadens the waistline! A few days in France. tucking into exquisite food and wine helped me to relax and take stock. Now how can we resist that croissant for breakfast? We can take a...
Do you have a bee in your bonnet?
Do you have a bee in your bonnet? Well, I have some buzzy ideas that will help you get it out and sorted and I have one too. Read this from a client “Working with you Di was a revelation, I had no idea that I had real choices, that I could feel love again and be...
What, fees going down?
I had a chat with a colleague recently and discussed our respective businesses, we checked out the websites, viewed competitors and we came to the conclusion that I was not charging enough. So, I duly went through my offerings, the new programmes and courses and...
Always learning new things and adapting my skills as I go!
In my younger days, my first enterprise after many years of being employed was as a business consultant. My speciality was Quality Management Systems, which I designed specifically for each client to comply with the British Standards ISO 9001. Often, I was given an...
Learn resilience to overcome fear and anxiety!
I have lived a long time and continue to experience life in full, with all its ups and downs. My life has been interesting, varied and sometimes frightening, often daunting and on occasions consumed with grief and overwhelmed with joy. That is life! Through all of...
Difficult times, or a time to shine?
Yes, we are going through difficult times, the world is in crisis and we have wars. Not just in Ukraine but skirmishes all over the place, the Taliban, famines and natural disasters. Remember Tonga and the volcanic eruption, well it's out of the news now, but the...
What is love?
What is love? Strange question? Not really, we love in so many different ways, and as tomorrow is Valentine’s Day, I thought it would a good idea to explore this thought. Love is a feeling, an emotion and one that seems to drive us, maybe more than any other emotion,...
Six ways to happiness
Six ways to make every day happy! Hello everyone and rejoice, the days are getting longer, spring cannot be far away! I hope you enjoyed reading the FREE booklet ‘The Mind, Body, Spirit Connection’. If you missed it, let me know and I will happily send you another...
Me, depressed? Never….but can you help me please?
As you may have seen, I have recently released an online course focusing on the depressed state of mind that tends to be prevalent at this time of year. Of course, not everyone feels that way, some just keep going with whatever life and the climate throws at them and...
New year detox? I don’t think so…
It's a new year... let's get started! It's energising to think of a New Year, a clean start with new ideas and goals. One of the most toted notions in health circles is the January De-Tox. Well not for me. Our bodies are very well designed and when we get back to...
Winter solstice, Christmas, what’s next?
Solstice Blessings and Happy Christmas to all my readers ... and welcome to the most interesting year to come. In my view 2022 will be revealing, it will show up our personalities, good or bad, our failings and strengths, all to be revealed in the light of day. We...
Back to my inner thoughts…
This is this morning Facebook post…so I thought it may be better to add a little more… “Just for today know that when some people speak of god, they think of an old man with a beard sitting on a cloud in ‘heaven’. My thoughts bring an image of pure energy,...
It’s a long story…..
Ok it’s been a while…. It's not that have had nothing to say, rather the contrary, too much to think about and reluctant to put my feeling on paper. We are looking forward to a little release on restrictions and having had on vaccination I feel a little more confident...
Sad times, exciting times!
Thursday 21st January Yesterday was my partners brother-in-law’s funeral. Very sad for the family and I too am grieving after a very old girlfriend passed away on Sunday. Life is fleeting but when we are young it seems like we have forever to do and see whatever we...
Rotten weather, so memories of Kenya?
My spirit is in 'The Field' today, dreaming of things I am not able to do right now..... It’s dark, damp and foggy and that this makes me long for the January’s in Kenya that I been privileged to experience over the last seven years. Even though I feel the loss,...
Scattergun…
There is so much to take in right now….I feel like I am coping with life with a scattergun approach! My work level has gone up, my sleep has gone down, and I have to remember to breathe. I don’t get anxiety attacks like some people, but I get wound up, which is a...
That amazing feeling of peace
I had a lovely experience this morning. It has been a strange time over the disjointed days of Christmas and new year and I really thought today was Monday when I woke up at 6 am! There was plenty of time to my usual jobs setting up the day and yoga stretches to...
Well, that was a strange year….so what next?
Christmas was, well quiet, as I expect it was for most people. And now we have another lockdown. It has very little effect on me as I am semi-retired, I have a secure home and enough to eat…. that is not the same for many people. And that knowledge hurts! This new...
On this day my life changed
I wrote this piece in 2004 after a move to Gloucester with my husband. He was already suffering from Altzheimers and he died 2014. It’s a sunny day, with little wind and the warming spring sun feels good on my face. Thoughts fill my mind; I feel uneasy and don’t not...
Today is amazing – I am a Great Grandmother Again!
My family seem to be building a football team; I have two sons and a daughter. My eldest son has two boys, his eldest son now has two boys…that’s a lot of lads! And more children to have children…I am awed by generations passed and now I have helped to create...
Too much to worry over..!
I am feeling sad, there is an air of depression settling over me, maybe it’s the weather. There are so many issues around right now…we have the virus and the long way out with vaccination. Then we have Brexit; even though I was one in favour, I don’t think anyone knew...
A walk to the sea
The weather is getting colder and there was sleet in the rain this morning. Then after lunch, the sun appeared so out I went for my walk …. As you may know, I live by the sea, not far from Brighton but far enough to be quieter and the beach less crowded. It is also a...
Going with the flow….
Today I have the urge to create more….I crochet and love it but there are days I want a change but still make something…! I am very proud of some of my creations (not all) and of course the more you practice the better you get!! I was told by my son, the Grandad in...
Feeling the presence of the She-Wolf….
I am aware that many people believe in angels and spirit guides…I do! And I expect many will say that it is rubbish and that is simply fine. It has transpired over time, this feeling of being close to something that is not me, having a presence near me that is new….So...
Funny dreams may be helpful!
I had a funny dream last night that was interesting rather than ’funny haha’. I was by the sea and there were no boats so I was trapped, then I climbed a mountain and of course once at the top there was nothing else other than to come back down….I was trapped....
Watch the gulls and be amazed…
Today I sat by the balcony door at 6am mediating and watched the early signs of light appear on the horizon, a definite chill in the air but that is better than rain. The wind has died down, the sea is calm again so there are fishing boats in the bay, I could see the...
A day in my life……
As mentioned in my last blog post, I listen to Radio 4 and wait for the ‘Thought for the Day’ slot before I get up. After that, I make breakfast for my partner John and I have herbal tea (more about food in another blog). The first project in my office is to write my...
The best start to a day!
In case you even vaguely interested, this is how I start my day…every day with very few exceptions. My body clock wakes me at around 5.30am and as it’s cold right now, I stay in bed and work through my ‘Gratitude’s’. On warm mornings I sit by the balcony window and...
A new start……
Today is the first day of the rest of my life and there is much to do. At 76 I cannot afford to waste time but sometimes I feel that motivation has left me...yet I am able to motivate others. We (In England) are in the second lockdown due to Covid-19 and I feel so for...
Remembering what I thought I knew!
I have just had some crystals delivered; I has been browsing my crystal book and decided I need some more to increase my collection. So now I have to give them labels or I shall not remember why I bought them! Crystals feature in my energy healing but since I have...
The Blog….!
This is a blog for me and about me, it has nothing to do with my business, my healing or dowsing, but it will have connections...'cause that is what I do.
Why a blog?
I have decided that a blog is cathartic, it clears the mind and assists thoughts to flow. There may be days when I write nothing, and others when it's difficult to stop.....