Do you have a bee in your bonnet? Well, I have some buzzy ideas that will help you get it out and sorted and I have one too.
Read this from a client “Working with you Di was a revelation, I had no idea that I had real choices, that I could feel love again and be independent and happy. What you taught me was challenging but I did it, and now have a great life. Thank you from the bottom of my heart, you and your work are life-changing.”
I don’t put up testimonials very often, as I feel that mostly they are private messages of gratitude, but right now I am going to tell you about the client who left me this great testimonial.
We will call her Amy, and she asked for help about a year ago. She had been feeling down, depressed and anxious during the pandemic lockdown and contacted me to see what I could suggest that would help her get back on her feet.
So we started a set of three sessions, the first to get to understand her issues. Her problems were deep, her ‘bee in the bonnet’ was relationship and money, or lack of it!
At a time in her life when she was looking forward to retirement, with a pension to match her lifestyle, her husband dropped a bombshell. He told her that when he retired he was not getting the work pension he had expected so they would have to live pretty much on their state pensions.
As we are all aware, the cost of living is going up and Amy’s idea of holidays in the sun, dinners out and spending on herself were disappearing fast. Her relationship with her husband was not good and she had thoughts of leaving him, even after 35 years.
Our work concentrated on changing her emotions around money and adjusting her view of retirement. She did have options, she could leave the marriage and as there was no pot of pension money, there was no financial reason to stay. Amy had worked most of her married life and their two children lived some way from them, so one option was to continue working.
It was not easy to get Amy out of her mindset of lack and betrayal. As you can imagine she had become entrenched in bitterness and felt defeated by life.
After three sessions Amy had changed enough to see life was good, she found a job that she loved, it was challenging but provided her with income. But the big change was with her attitude!
She shifted from lack to abundance, from despair to affection and her energy and positive thinking returned. She changed her story and was no longer a victim of circumstances. Her relationship with her husband was getting better and she looked forward to a brighter future.
We had a follow-up session about two months later and it was then she told me that “Working with you Di was a revelation, I had no idea that I had real choices, that I could feel love again and be independent and happy. What you taught me was challenging but I did it, and now have a great life, Thank you from the bottom of my heart, you and your work are life-changing.”
These follow-up sessions are when the client has had time to process the changes, understand the teaching and take benefit from the work we have both done.
This may resonate with you, or maybe you have other things that bother you, so whatever it is that buzzing away in your mind, let me help you set it free.
Diane – with love and blessings
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